Caring for Aging Parents

sandwich generation2 2By Steven A. Piazza, President of Senior Management Advisors

As their parents live longer and more active lives, many adults are becoming part of the “sandwich generation” – those who are caring for their aging parents while still raising their own children.

According to the Pew Research Center, more than 1 in 8 Americans between the ages of 40 to 60 is both raising a child and caring for a parent. Providing care for senior parents and juggling other responsibilities can often become overwhelming, leading to caregiver burnout and stress over decisions about the best care options.

It’s not uncommon for family caregivers to experience guilt over the decision to examine other care options for a loved one. However, when the needs of the loved one go beyond the quality of care that can be provided at home, it may be time to consider a senior living community.

To know when it’s time for this decision, caregivers should watch for these warning signs:

· Forgetting to take medications

· Decline in personal hygiene

· Memory loss

· Loneliness or depression

· Loss of interest in social activities

· Poor eating habits

· Difficulty with balance and coordination

 For seniors who are exhibiting these symptoms, an assisted living facility can often provide the best level of care, customized to their needs. In an assisted living community, seniors can receive help with daily activities, such as preparing meals, bathing and medication management, but they are still able to maintain a level of independence, privacy and an active social life.

In addition to care options, these communities offer comfortable housing, a wide variety of senior friendly activities, chef prepared meals, transportation to doctors’ appointments and amenities such as a beauty salon and barber shop, spacious lounges, billiards parlor, library and café.

For seniors who do not yet need daily assistance but could benefit from more social interaction, senior day programs can be a helpful solution. These programs allow seniors to spend a few hours, or as many as 12, at a community to socialize, participate in activities and share meals with other seniors, preventing the loneliness they may otherwise experience while their caregiver is at work.

Senior day programs, along with temporary respite care, provide a break for weary caregivers and a preview for seniors, allowing prospective residents to check in to a senior living community for a short stay before making a longer term decision. Similarly, dusk-to-dawn programs are another non-residency option, offering overnight care for seniors who experience such difficulties as sleep disturbance, confusion, Alzheimer’s or wandering habits.

When making decisions about the care of loved ones, it’s important to consider their physical and mental health as a top priority. While the decisions may be difficult, high quality care that is provided in a warm, home-like environment can provide seniors with an improved quality of life and give caregivers peace of mind..